I happen to be on a couple of social networks, but Facebook
is, for some reason the one that I use the most. That is where I can freely
express my mind on the many issues that cloud my mind without fear. I don’t
post offensive posts anyway.
I personally like Facebook. It has connected me with some
important people who have left a mark on my life. It is also one of those
things that keeps me connected to friends who are outside the country, being
allergic to things like Skype and all.
There is one bad side of using Facebook, though. However
small the number of friends you have may be, they are always too many.
Surprised? Maybe you should wait for the explanation. Like any other typical
account, mine has friends which range from family members, schoolmates, atsogoleri, role models and those people
who just throw random requests (and are accepted when I am half awake on my Facebook account). Well, that becomes
the audience for whatever you post and for some reason that becomes a bit
of a problem. People see things they are
not supposed to see and you might get into hot soup. Let’s not go to the point
where people misinterpret what you say.
One of the things I find irritating, however, is the
tendency to provide offline responses to Facebook posts. Much as I have done
that to some people, and I am not proud of that, I feel like people over-do
that with my posts. Each and every time I open for a new semester I have people
around who come just to respond to something I posted on Facebook, which to me
doesn't sound logical.
Mark Zuckerberg is a genius. He made sure that as long as I
have space to post my stuff, every single one of my friends should have a space
to give their view on my view. For some reason, some people do not just know
how to use that but rather prefer to come to you personally to give their ‘response’.
Obviously something I do not like. Tip? If I say something online, and I hope
many are with me on this, respond to it right online. If you do not like going
public, then just respond using some private message. Koma zisafike ku phone
yanga.
Anyway, the whole point of all this writing is that I do not
like people commenting on what I write online unnecessarily when we meet.
There was, however, an exception this weekend. I was walking
around Kabila Tavern when I met one cyber friend of mine. Don’t get distracted
with the name of the place we met. That’s just where we met and there is no
other way of describing the place. Where we were coming from or going is also
not relevant to this so we may ignore that on purpose.
This gentleman had a very good message to me. Actually it
was from one of the church leaders. It was meant for me, but for one reason or
the other he did not know that it was meant for me, so he was giving it to me
as some sort of conveyor.
Again, I got distracted. What was so interesting about our
chat was that he gave some positive feedback on my Facebook feeds. Now, here is
someone who has does not comment on the stuff. That tells me one thing. The
lack of comments on a Facebook post does not mean people do not see it. Lesson
to us all.
Well. The gentleman went on to ask as to why I do not write.
I did not answer that, because the reason I do not write is pure laziness. It
is probably because I don’t have the feeling that people would be reading what
I write.
I created my own blog years back, posted some few things,
and when I saw that it did not have that much of an audience(it has two followers and has registered 425 views, half of which I think are my own), I abandoned it.
It probably is time for me to resuscitate it and write some things, for the sake
of those who can read the stuff.
What will I be writing on?
Well. Whatever comes to mind will be written. But it will
obviously be good.
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