Another
Friday.
About a
week ago I happened to be in Makanjira, Mangochi for work. Good, historic and
interesting site, it is. Probably one of those sites you should visit if you
drive a nice twin-cab (moni moni anthu
nonse amene mumayendera ma twin-cab).
Anyway.
That is not important and the same is the case with what I was doing there. It
is what happened there that I would like us to have a discussion around.
Discussion.
Soon as
we got out of our mobility device some little kid, around 10 years or so to my
guessing showed up. He has a speech problem taking it from the way he was
speaking, but his intentions were clear taking it from the gesture of the open
palm; he was looking for alms. Too bad for him I did not have anything I could
give him which I tried to communicate nicely. My communication fell on a deaf
ear and kid continued to follow. He only turned back when I got to the office I
was to work in that day where the “locals” chased the kid away.
In the
office I was greeted by a story about the same kid. It was told by my female
colleague of mine who had been threatened by the same kid on a previous visit
because she was not able to help the kid out with the money that he had
“demanded”.
I am not
a good storyteller, but I hope what I have shared here relates to at least five
situations you have encountered if you live in one of the Malawian towns. Once
in a while we meet a person asking for assistance on the streets and
occasionally some take it to our doorstep. For every person who has some humanity
in them, this situation poses as a challenge as it presents a dilemma; whether
to help or not. Actually, that is justified because while some people who ask
for help, there are some who do not. A greater proportion of people asking for
alms in our towns do that because that is their trade. Actually people have
made a profession out of it and have perfected it to an extent that the
unsuspecting (if there are any) will end up sympathizing with them.
Adding
to that, we have people living with various disabilities who are in our towns
asking for alms; ranging from the guy skillfully playing his stringed musical
instrument around Chayamba Building to the person moving with a little squire
asking for food in the restaurants and chips stands (kuziwaya kuja, inu). And
then we have those who sit outside our shops asking for our change.
The fact
that at some point many of us do have to think twice before fishing out a note
or a coin means that there is something off about the whole business of
soliciting money in our streets. Naturally the Malawian culture teaches us to
be friendly, hospitable and generous but it turns out some have built up skills
aimed at abusing these gestures. The interesting thing is that for almost every
interaction between a solicitor (ine zonena kuti beggar ayi) and a potential
well wisher, one person gets disadvantaged. It is either someone who needs help
doesn’t get it or some unsuspecting good Samaritan gets duped and ends up
giving out money he could have used to buy 100 megabytes of a TNM Nite Shift
bundle.
If we
take a moment to disregard the people who ask for our resources because they
are in actual need (ndipo alipo ochepa) we will discover that we are financing
the wrong industry in town by giving our “bundle money” and change to these professionals.
As I already said, some of these have made a career out of this and have
defined routes they go everyday just to pry on this trade. Others have built
houses and established businesses at the expense of the good Samaritans who
finance them.
Unlike
all the other articles I write here (where I am the know it all and have all
the answers, the all wise and mighty Richie), I don’t think I have all the
answers to this, and that is why I will throw it to the readership. Before I
throw the questions, I will give you a couple of situations and I am pretty
sure you have encountered a couple of similar situations.
I have
once seen the kids who go begging for money at the Ginnery corner Chipiku shop
(he was probably around 10-12 by age) engage in a dangerous fight with a guard.
There has been a case where people have fought over a “soliciting spot” at
Metro in Zomba. I have also heard a first-hand account of a woman who was
threatened for and was almost beat up by four kids around the same age group or
younger for not giving them the money they had asked for. Main point is that
some of these people can get violent and can recite the swearing dictionary
when they feel like.
I have
seen people (there is a boy about my age and two women who linger around
Ginnery Corner, beware) who go asking for money; telling the same (or different
versions of the same) story to me right in Blantyre. I have heard of a
situation where people found these guys bragging of how much they had made in
that particular day in Lilongwe.
On the
other side, I once helped a guy who was looking for food as he had been called
unexpectedly to be a guardian of a patient at a district hospital only to be
referred to Queen Elizabeth Central Hospital. After a lengthy questioning he
got my K250 and I forgot about it. What was striking was that he ran to me to
thank me and before he told me that he had eaten the nsima he needed, I got it
from the aroma of the bonya that was all
over him.
The
question remains. Tidzitani nawo anthuwa?
Should
we be giving them our money? What if they are the pro’s who just want to get
our hard earned money without any sweat (anyway, with a little sweat)? If we
say we shouldn’t, how about those who are in need? What about those with
disabilities?
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I have come across tow ladies with kids on their backs looking tired and hungry. I was convinced beyond human nature that these women are no beggars. They told me that they have been referred from Mulanje to QECH with the kids as the conditions of the kids were serious so they need some had cash to travel back home.
ReplyDeleteMy religious beliefs concurred with me to assist and I fished the whole lot of a thousand(if my memory serves me well.
After 2 solid hours when I passed the same road...found same women now with an issue that they are coming from Northern region where they were doing piece works and they need food as they have run out of money.
I reminded them that I have given them transport to Mulanje 2 hours ago. She just said "tathokoza achimwene".
After that I have never assited any. My mind was desensitized. Am always mad at the women who lied to me and took away my money (honestly that was theft by trick).
As regards to how do find the solution I must admit that it's hard now because it's now an industry where married men are sending little children to streets to beg for them. I think the Government can do justice to chase these people and help the needy (which are few apparently)
Otherwise these 12 year beggars can rape your wife or girlfriend if she is travelling at night. They are innocent yet deadly.
Good job Rich....a topic mostly winked at.