It is a Friday. This is the sort of day that I am obliged to write a two-pager for my blog. Having kept a consistent record of over forty articles a year, 2022 humbled me as I could only manage a meagre nine. In as much as the things that kept me from writing were beyond my control, I have made a deliberate decision to write more this year. And here we are.
There was a
time in Richie Online when the end of the year would be marked with an article
urging you, the dear reader, to take stock of your life and evaluate the year in
line with the goals you set. That would typically be followed by another
article reminding you to plan the next year in reasonable detail. The
articles received mixed reactions because while some agreed with me on the need
for planning, others felt like the more practical approach to life is one where
you take every day as it comes. No plans, nothing. Just a human trying to make
it past the next 6 o'clock. While I am more inclined towards planning life to
the hour, I would understand why others feel like the whole thing is unnecessary
as I was in the same boat before a life-changing day some 10 years ago.
January 12,
2013.
On that
Saturday I attended a seminar organized by Henry Kachaje, who then was running
a consulting company called Business Consult Africa. This seminar was about
personal finances and planning and I remember paying a subsidized fee of K7000,
having taken advantage of the student discount
that was on offer.
You may
wonder why I am claiming that the seminar was a life changer when all you know
Henry Kachaje as is this MERA CEO who was sharing motivational talks on how to
make K1 million from K1000. As I mentioned, this was a seminar about planning and
personal finances. It was the planning bit that changed my life. I cannot
recall much of the planning session’s content. One thing I remember, however, is
that Henry told us to get practical. In his view, attending the seminar was
just the start but putting it into practice was where it was at. In what was a
thinking and planning challenge, the good man gave us twenty-two paged A4 planners with
specific questions on where we wanted our lives to be in 2023! We had about 2
hours to fill those planners.
A bit of
context. By the time we did this I was a 19-year-old second year student at the
College of Medicine. I was yet to get into the clinical part of my training and
my first relationship. There I was, with a planner trying to visualize my life
beyond the 20s. In that planner, we had to write about our career lives, finances,
spirituality and family. In one section we were asked to write how we envision
people introducing us at a formal gathering in 2023, and boy did I fill that
with pleasant things. As the naïve me, unaware of the complexities of the medical
profession and the hurdles of studying and practicing medicine in Malawi were,
I envisioned a clinical career in which I would specialize in cancer medicine.
Family? I wrote that I would be married by now.
I cannot
recollect the rest of the nonsense I wrote in that planner. The reason I
remember these bits about family and career is just that I value my career and
love life above the many things that go on with my life. One thing I am sure of
is this that whatever life I envisioned then is not the one I am living now. 10
years ago, in that garden at Mount Soche I thought by now I would be busy treating
some patient from Thyolo at Queen Elizabeth Central Hospital. As I type this, I
am on a break at some lonely desk having spent some hours writing code for
analyzing data. Tonight, I would have hoped for dinner and a cold drink at some
fancy place in the company of my wife. Know what will happen instead? I will
spend another cold lonely night alone half a globe away from Blantyre. With
this huge deviation from the planned life, you would wonder why that day was the day I
think of as life changing. I will explain.
When I sat
in that seminar, a certain part of my thinking opened up and from January 12,
2013 I gained my ability to think in the long term. It was at that time that I
realized that it was not only possible but also great to have some sort of idea
of what you want your life to be like in 10 or 20 years. There is one advantage
to it. Once you have set your mind and put up a detailed vision of your life on
paper, you make deliberate efforts to make that a reality. As such, every time
you make your yearly, monthly, weekly or daily plans you try your best to feed
them into that bigger plan. In other word, that long term plan becomes the
pacesetter of your activities.
There have
been a lot of changes in my life plan over the years. The 10 year vision I had
in 2013 was completely overhauled as of 5 years ago but the change only
affected the specifics. The original thinking that brought me the plan stuck
around. As I started the year 2013, I realized the need for planning the next
10 years with a reasonable level of detail, and I will attempt to do that sometime
within the year.
Some have
expressed skepticism about the whole idea of stressing what life should be
like 10 years from now. To some, the whole idea of tying goals to calendar
years does not just resonate and to others it is the extended period of 10 years
that they cannot work with. Others have suggested 5 years as a more reasonable
alternative for a planning period. Whatever period you think is a bit realistic,
I would recommend scribbling a set of goals and a bit of a plan on how to get
there.
Back in
November 2018, I was invited for a job interview. I did not do much in terms of
preparation as I felt like I wouldn’t take the job even if it was offered. The
only reason I went in there was that someone had told me that it is better to
decline a job offer than to turn down an interview. An interview, she said,
gives you more “interview experience”. When I walked into the interview room in
with my dirty blazer, not so clean shoes and unkempt hair, I found a serious panel
of young scientists. After the pleasantries, the first question I got was that
of where I saw myself in two years. When I had tackled that one, the 5-year,
10-year and 20-year versions of the question followed. The rest of the
interview was typical, and I left the room glad that I had taken the challenge.
A few days
after the interview, I got a call that I had done well in the interview and the
team was offering me the job. The start date was just a few days away. In what
was an unexpected move, I ended up taking the job. One day I happened
to have a casual chat with my boss who told me why I was picked in the job. “When
we asked you what you want to do and be in two, five, ten and twenty years,
your answers were solid. It showed that you had an actual plan and were not
making things up on the spot like the other candidates. I like that kind of focus.”
To be fair, I had a two and five-year plan in my books but the rest I made up
on the spot. It was easy for me to cook up that
information because all I had to do was extrapolate my short and intermediate
term plans. That got me a wonderful job and subsequently launched me into the phase
I am in my career.
While
respecting the “aliyense azipanga zomwe zamusangalatsa” catch phrase, I would
like to challenge you to think 10 or more years into the future and let that
guide your yearly, monthly, weekly, and daily plans. It may sound like a nerdy
thing to do but it is as practical as it is beneficial.
Mr Kachaje took pictures of all of us writing the plans in the garden on that Saturday morning. When we were done with the writing, he took all the planners and told us he would keep them and remind us about them in 10 years. The 10 years between January 12, 2013, and yesterday have been bittersweet. I do not have the career path and family I imagined, but I am glad I attended that seminar. I am looking forward to getting an email of that picture and the hard copy of that planner from Mr Kachaje, who still has my respect to this day. There was a bit about business and making big bucks, but I don't think I paid much attention to that. Perhaps that is why I am still broke to this day.
Assuming
that he is not too busy keeping the country from spiraling into a bunch of fuel
queues again; and that he will be kind enough to return those 10-year plans, I will be glad to laugh at those things I wrote before the
clinical years messed up my handwriting. I cannot wait to see what the naïve,
teenage me thought life would be like pushing thirty. Whatever it is that I find in
that notebook, I am glad I went to the seminar. I look forward to writing another
10-year plan. This time it will be realistic.
Happy
weekend!
Nice piece. Happy weekend to you too
ReplyDeleteThis is a great piece. Planning is important and I think I should do that. Nane had it sometime back but I think I am not living it. Koma sitionetsa kutopa. Tipanganso plan Ina mpaka zitheke. This times planning will be realistic indeed.
ReplyDeleteVery inspiring,I can't agree more. Someone once said there's no such a thing as a miracle,you need to plan and work towards implementing that into reality. Nice weekend
ReplyDeleteHappy Weekend to you too🔥
ReplyDeleteNice one 😊
ReplyDeleteRight on point
ReplyDeleteGood read, very educative. I'm looking forward to more of your articles this year.
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